Keith* and I came across within our belated 40s at switching points within our life. We had been both newly divorced and our youngsters had kept for university. During my very very first wedding intercourse had been always a challenge, and my ex accused me personally of experiencing a libido that is low. However when we began Keith that is dating understood that I wasn’t the “problem. ” We traveled a complete lot together and had intercourse at each opportunity: on a buddy’s sleep at a social gathering, in restaurant restrooms, even outside in a park!
We got hitched in a ceremony that is small by our youngsters and friends. From the beginning, our relationship ended up being always extremely passionate, but once we joined our belated 50s—I’m 56 and Keith is 59—our sex life slowed up. Keith’s erection dysfunction had been a huge reason.